The most common NDE includes experiences such as the following: a feeling of peace, 60%; "entering the darkness," 53%; an experience of leaving one's body, 37%; a "perception of light," 33%; an experience of making a choice or willing to go back to life, 33%; a review of highlights of one's own life, 25%. Other studies of out-of-body experiences indicate that many involve "encounters in telepathic communication with deceased relatives and friends" and "contacts with discarnate entities in general."
In Eastern mysticism, the bardo of becoming equates to the subjective Heaven Realm. In The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, Sogyal Rinpoche provides the following insights into the similarities of near-death experiences and the bardos. First, the Bardo of dying includes a "black experience of ‘full attainment’" including a moment of bliss and joy. A main feature of many near-death experiences includes traveling "through a black space, ‘a total, peaceful, wonderful blackness,’ down a ‘long, dark, tunnel.’"
Coinciding with the element of a bright light in many NDEs is the "Clear Light" which dawns in all its splendor at the moment of death. In the bardo of becoming, we many times "meet other beings in the same bardo." This corresponds to many being "able to converse with others who have died" during near-death travels. Further, many near-death reports include "visions of inner worlds, of paradises, cities of light, with transcendental music." "In the bardo of becoming, as well as many other kinds of visions, the mental body will see visions and signs of different realms."
By learning to lucid dream (conscious dreaming), we can consciously visit the Heaven Realm at will. Lucid dreaming has been defined by Robert Wagoner in his book Lucid Dreaming to include five stages. The first two stages are similar to normal dreaming in the Dream Realm. Stage III dreaming is characterized by "power, purpose, and primacy." The keys to the stage are intent and will. With the use of intent and will, the dreamer begins to "show his or her mastery over the dream realm." Also, "the appearance of apparent ‘independent agents’ or dream figures acting in purposeful and volitional ways may cause anxiety and concern."
Simply, using intent and will, we begin to qualify our dreams consciously. This is the transition in dreaming into the Heaven Realm. Stage IV is defined as "re-reflection, reaching out, and wonder." "The Lucid dreamer may also begin to reflect that the dream realm represents a new type of reality with common principles and structure... Lucid dreamers may be forced to consider what is beyond this realm of lucid dreaming." According to Malcolm Godwin, another expert on Lucid dreaming, the dreamer enters the "Way of the Will." "Will is what sends the sorcerer through the barriers, up through the trap door of his or her own internal oubliette. It is what can send the dreamer into the other worlds of the dreaming self."
What we have been conditioned to believe is a ethereal place that we go after death to live eternally with our family and friends is really just another level within the Subjective that we can visit periodically or at will. This pivotal subjective level is very important for all spiritual life and Being to manifest in an organized and structured way within our material universe. At the same time, it also provides the essential nature, characteristics and qualities that make us what we are and what we can become.